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It is never also late to pursue a dream and in the words of one of my favorite authors, Wayne Dyer, "Do not die with your music still in you." Should you have a dream, pursue it, and do not let anyone or anything get in your way. The only thing which will truly stop you IS you.

MY FOUR-MINUTE DANCING CAREER

A few years back, I choose to pursue my dream of being a dancer. I was 36years old and being a dancer was on my list of things to do before I die, so I considered I should get cracking before osteoporosis or some other age-related malady took hold of my body.

My target was not to become a Vegas showgirl or to star in the next Flash Dance, yet to comprehend how to dance and perform on stage … simply after.

I attended dance classes each week with out fail for ten months and hipped and hopped until I nearly dropped.

Soon June rolled around and my group was scheduled to perform in 2 year-end recitals.

I tossed around the idea of quitting to bypass making a fool of myself on stage, yet I had put myself into that situation for a reason.

I sought out the support of friends who I understood would motivate me and not let me back out.

They told me all of the things I had to hear ... I was fine, I had the moves, I may have been a professional! (Thank fineness for friends with a great deal of hot air and big hearts!)

Thanks to the emboldenment of my friends and 13-year old niece who desired to view "Auntie shake her groove thing," I went ahead with the responsibility to perform on stage.

Since I understood I was going to be on display for so many eyes, I turned up the volume on my practicing. I performed my routine repeatedly again on my back lawn, in my basement, in my garage, at work in my office.

I mightn't remember over 2 or 3 combos to save my life and desired to back out.

It was then the big guns needed to be drawn. My husband stepped in.

He assured me I was nervous and fearful and that failure used to be an illusion I had maked for myself; that I was sabotaging my target and blowing everything out of proportion.

He rebrained me that I took that on as a life-lengthy dream and not to forget the fun and excitement of the experience.

He brought me back to reality by putting everything into perspective. After grounded, I released the significance I had maked around the challenge and concentrated on the fun again.

The steps came easier and I mastered the choreography.

Thanks to the inspirement of my friends and husband, I realized my dream and I am glad I followed through with it.

I then have a lovely video I could look back on in the years ahead as I wish to re-live my 4-minute dancing journey. :-)

I understand that if I didn't go the whole 9 yards and take the action essential to make the experience, I'd have short-evolved myself and would regret it to that day.

Not only am I regret free, yet I've since taken on and attained other items on my "101 things to do in that lifetime" list and it feels fantastic!

Is there something you've invariably desired to make, attain or experience?

Remember that when our time has come, it's most often not what we did that we regret, yet what we did not do.

Do you wish to come to understand to paint, turn your proceedion into a commerce, author a book, understand a new language, or reduce your golf handicap?

There are so many things you could do in that lifetime, and we all have the same 23hours in each day. It is doing you how you choose to make use of them and it is also doing you to believe in yourself.

Eachone else may believe in you and push you forward, yet should you do not believe in yourself, it is not worth a hill of beans!

Remember …

You are never given a wish with out also being given the ability to make it correct. You might must work for it, however. – Rictough Bach

It's never also late to be what you may have been. – George Eliot

About The Author

Laurie Hayes is a Life Coach and founder of Where the Heart is Life Coaching. She is the writer of a bi-weekly newsletter, "The Heart of Existing," and an e-book constructed to promote excitement and encourage action in others to pursue the best life has to offer. To secure a free copy of her e-book, "11 Guidelines for Attraction," visit http://www.wheretheheartis-lifecoaching.com.

coachhayes@wheretheheartis-lifecoaching.